Saturday, December 3, 2011
Tis the Season
Yes, giftmas is upon us.
Family and friends gather to share in good cheer, attempting to brighten up the long, dark winter days. Some exchange gifts during their visits. I think wine and chocolate are the safest and most-popular.
People are scrambling for deals in the retail stores or online. Good-hearted individuals and groups are making efforts to ensure the less-fortunate will have a good Christmas. I am sure that we all feel for the children and adults who are struggling financially and emotionally this time of year - and beyond.
As a single parent, I agree.
Soon I will have to venture out into the malls to pick up a few items requested by my offspring. One has a birthday just after Christmas and convinced me that only one present will bring happiness although it happens to be one of those expensive electronic distractions. Since this child is working on a masters degree (insert gush of pride here), I will bite my tongue and strive to accommodate that request.
We tried the pared-down gifting approach a couple of years ago. I don't think it went over well. Now that we are in smaller living quarters, they are not impressed that we do not have room for our artificial tree. We'll work something out to decorate this petit apartment with festive colour and cheer. It will be the first Christmas here and hard to measure up to our previous, spacious abode. Even the cats >^..^< agree that there isn't as much room here to roam, lurk and express their own creativity.
And lets not forget the significance of this time of celebration. The gifting represents the gifts of the Magi who were delayed in arriving at the stable. Their only GPS reference was the bright, guiding star. They also didn't stop to ask for directions. (pause for feminist quips)
The birth of the child represents hope for a troubled empire. If one were to wax poetic and philosophical, the birth can represent a rebirth within ourselves to see our world again as one full of hope and joy, putting aside resentments and conflicts. This is why we make those silly New Year's resolutions. Kudos to those who want to quit smoking and other vices. Respects to those who want to conquer harmful habits and thoughts.
We are an interesting mix of individuals but with some effort and collaboration, we can be unified in our goal to cure humanity of its ailments. Two of the worst are fear and greed. Hopefully the occupy movement and efforts by a few super-rich individuals helped give some consciences a stir. Although some people can be shamed into change by positive peer pressure, I think the actions have to be fully their own choice. Else, there will be a lingering resentment.
It puzzles my pretty blonde head how people who have so much don't want to part with just a bit that would improve the lives of many others. I challenge fortune and welcome the opportunity to be put in that position :o)
In my novel, The Year of the Rabbit, the birth of a child also represented hope and joy. Although baby Harry was the product of a shameful teen pregnancy, his arrival brought joy into many people's lives - especially that of lonely, young Sera.
Coming full circle with the gifting theme, I will end this post with a discount offer for those who wish to purchase the Ebook version of The Year of the Rabbit, A Novel about Fate, Family and Forgiveness. If you ventured out or online to purchase an EReader for a loved one, why not add this bittersweet tale to the list of books too? It's available in many supported formats. While considering, scroll down my Smashwords ebook page to watch a funny video of Geneva Tabby cat, my meuws, inspiration and distraction.
If you have gathered any wisdom from this pensive post, it's that the world needs more love, compassion and... funny cat videos. If you are not YET convinced about the novel, check out the comments from readers of the first print edition.
Thanks for dropping by. Next time, bring wine or chocolate :o)